Unless it’s an arranged marriage, of course a person would have things that she/he likes about the other person. Most girls take physical appearance as secondary, but I know guys relatively tend to be attracted to physical appareance. A guy friend of mine in justifying the position jokingly told me, ‘If you see a person at a bar,” he said, “you won’t be approaching her and say “oh, what a nice heart you have.” Come to think of it, it does make sense.hahahaa..
Well, with him-though he is not really drop dead gorgeous guy, (yang, you rather me tell the truth,kan?) but still he is still an apple of my eyes. The thing I like most about him is his eyes. He has a pair of sunken eyes, which usually will make a person looks fierce, but it is soften with his hazel coloured pupil and long lashes. That complements and balances it all. Hahahaa..yup, I’m into detail. But I’m attracted to him not because of that (I apparently noticed that after we both are together), but because of him being so gentleman and his people pleasing attitude. I guess that’s one of the recipes of the success in his career and the secret why this relationship works. Despite his busy schedule, I could see that he try as much as he could to spare some times for me even though that would mean sacrificing his personal needs.
Well, with him-though he is not really drop dead gorgeous guy, (yang, you rather me tell the truth,kan?) but still he is still an apple of my eyes. The thing I like most about him is his eyes. He has a pair of sunken eyes, which usually will make a person looks fierce, but it is soften with his hazel coloured pupil and long lashes. That complements and balances it all. Hahahaa..yup, I’m into detail. But I’m attracted to him not because of that (I apparently noticed that after we both are together), but because of him being so gentleman and his people pleasing attitude. I guess that’s one of the recipes of the success in his career and the secret why this relationship works. Despite his busy schedule, I could see that he try as much as he could to spare some times for me even though that would mean sacrificing his personal needs.
Guess that is what people called chemistry-you choose to accept the person that is compatible to you and at the end of the day, the relationship works!
I finally understood the connotation of ‘prince charming’; he is not necessarily tall, dark and handsome but it’s the chemistry between each other, and perseverance of the love and affection towards one another makes a relationship bonds. It’s those unexplainable and very abstract things. I guess it’s the chemistry between us- we somehow know each other too well especially who’s turn to withdraw from an argument, who’s turn to play ‘the good person’ and ‘the bad person’...(he usually allows me to be the ‘bad person’..hahaha). Of course, no relationship is perfect. We do at times find ourselves in arguments, but Alhamdulillah, it was not prolonged.
Indeed I hope that he wouldn’t change a bit-cause I love him just the way he is.
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