The url I chose for this blog is destinedwedding. This relationship strengthen my believe in the saying ‘Jodoh pertemuan di tangan Tuhan’. After so long, we will finally in a month time, Insyaallah be together. We’ve known each other for almost 10 years. We basically see each other maturing process, fumbles, ups and downs but at the end of the day, the acceptance of each other as whom we both are is the ultimate part. That’s why I would like to refer this blog as destined wedding.
I wrote this to commemorate the anxiety, the passion, the hardship and the in the preparation of the big day for us both. It is considerably a very tiring process, however the thought that the say where I am finally going to be spending my whole lifetime with him somehow recharge my energy level and it's worth it. No marriage is perfect I supposed, but living a life with someone not witnessing it seems incomplete.. Human nature requires us to crave for attention and praises and marriage serves that purpose.
Orang kata masa bertunang adalah masa di mana dugaan paling kuat. That’s really true. Because to prepare for the big day; both sides (and of course the families too!) have to come to a meeting mind. External factors are sometimes the cause of the obstacle or it comes from within. And you are expected to go through it gracefully. Nak buat benda yang baik dah tentulah banyak dugaan dan cabaran yang tiba2 datang. To me, marriage is a big step. That’s why I guess to me, it doesn’t happen to soon.
I pray so much that we’ll go through it successfully. I try my very best to be as positive as him and to throw away all the dreadful thoughts.
Caiyok! Insyallah!
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